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1. Say yeS or No When you're invited to the cottage, confirm with a yes or no as soon as possible. You may not be the only one on the guest list and beds are always limited. Plus it's just common courtesy to let your hosts know so they can plan meals and events (like a Boggle tournament) for the right number of people. 2. Food FoibleS You'll very likely be having all your meals at the cottage (no take out around these parts). That means lots of meal planning, prep, cooking and cleanup for a large group. Talk to your hosts about the food. Suggest cooking at least one meal. Offer to chip in for groceries for the other meals. Please don't bring tons of food that needs to be refrigerated; there just isn't room. And if you have special food concerns or picky eaters in the family, be sure those bases are covered. 3. dreSS the Part City clothes are for the city. Wayward sparks from the campfire or a rough spot on the dock can make short work of designer duds. Keep in mind that even if it's hot when you leave the city, it might be chilly by the time you arrive at the lake. Bring jackets, long pants and a hat unless you want to be outfitted in grandpa's XXL plaid bush jacket. 4. the bathroom iS dowN the hall Every cottage has a unique plumbing system and none of them are like the one in your city home. A good host will walk you through the dos and don'ts of bathroom etiquette, which might include a flush pedal, adding water from a jug or using the outhouse. Even if there is a shower, don't expect to use it. Water consumption and disposal is serious business out here. 5. SheetS, PillowS aNd towelS Some cottages are stacked with extra linens. Some aren't. Be on the safe side and throw your own pillows and a sleeping bag into the vehicle before your trip. Bring your own towels for washing up and the beach. And be sure to take it all home with you. Laundry at the lake isn't fun no matter how you slice it. 6. Pitch iN aNd Play aloNg There's always a little repair job on the list at the cottage. Come with your work gloves and good attitude. After all, you're enjoying these gorgeous surroundings thanks to the generosity of the hosts. When work is done and play time beckons, join in. You may discover you're a Scrabble champion or beer pong contender. You're Invited! Now do it right How to be a good cottage guest by Shel Zolkewich for the Free Press You've scored a weekend invitation to a friend's cottage. Fresh air, gorgeous scenery, delicious food and good company await. Be the best guest possible (and score another invitation) with these handy tips. 02 - Cottage Reflections